Social and emotional learning

    A little practice for being human.

    Big feelings, friendships, changes at home. Nookly helps you make stories, feeling cards and conversation starters so you can talk about what’s happening, in your family’s words.

    Learning bundles

    Feelings bundlesBundles for big feelings

    Naming feelings, friendship, fairness, two homes, saying goodbye and remembering someone. Gentle bundles for the moments that matter most. Explore more ready-made ideas in Nookly’s public children’s learning resource library, the Neighborhood.

    Want one made just for your child? Subscribe below to personalize this bundle, or create your own around your child’s name, interests and goals.

    Our Game Left Someone Out

    Story

    Our Game Left Someone Out

    When a game leaves someone out, kids learn to make play fair for everyone.

    Ages 5-6

    Taking Turns and Playing Fair

    Social-emotional learning through play. Kids notice when someone's left out, rework the rules, and practise taking turns — with a story, discussion cards, and a song to make fairness stick.

    $7.99

    How Nookly works

    Made in five stepsFrom child to finished thing, in five steps.

    Step one

    First, Nookly gets to know the child.

    Before anything is made, you tell Nookly who this child actually is — how they look, who lives in their house, the friends and pets they talk about, and what they are obsessed with this month. Everything Nookly creates later is built from this one profile.

    Set up once. Reused in everything after.

    • Home illustration

      Home

      Mom, Dad and baby brother

    • Best friend illustration

      Best friend

      Chloe from school

    Zara, age 5

    Zara, a five-year-old in a yellow t-shirt and blue jeans
    • Interests illustration

      Interests

      Dinosaurs, puddles and the colour red

    • Pets illustration

      Pets

      Biscuit, a very slow tortoise

    Step 1 of 5

    The basics

    What is social and emotional learning?

    Social and emotional learning (SEL) is how children learn to understand their feelings, get along with others and make kind, thoughtful choices. CASEL, the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning, groups these skills into five areas. Nookly uses them to shape stories, songs and games around the moments your child is living through.

    1. Self-awareness. Noticing and naming their own feelings and strengths.
    2. Self-management. Calming down, waiting and trying again.
    3. Responsible decision-making. Thinking through choices and what happens next.
    4. Relationship skills. Making friends, sharing and asking for help.
    5. Social awareness. Understanding how other people feel.
    Self-awareness
    Self-management
    Responsible decision-making
    Relationship skills
    Social awareness
    Self-awareness

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    The whole child

    Find their wordsHelp them find their words

    A young girl with closed eyes and folded hands, taking a calm breath

    Connection first. Words next. Plans later.

    Feelings aren’t bad behavior. They’re information. Nookly helps you make stories and prompts to talk about them together.

    It isn’t therapy or a diagnosis. If your child is struggling, talk to their doctor, school counselor or a licensed professional.

    Name it
    Words and pictures for big and small feelings.
    Practice it
    Role-play for joining games, saying sorry and asking for help.
    Tell someone
    Clear messages about trusted adults, especially for bullying.
    Your words
    You set the language and details for your family.

    What's in the membership?

    Personalized stories and learning experiences, guided by their family. Work toward a learning goal with a personalized plan, or create something for the moment they’re in.

    • Personalized creations

      Stories, videos, songs, podcasts and activities made around the child in front of them.

    • Learning plans

      A personalized learning plan, called a Blueprint, supports a goal the family chooses and helps the kid achieve it.

    • Resources to explore

      Explore ready-to-use stories and activities, with personalization where available.

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    Ideas to try togetherIdeas for learning together

    • A little boy sitting on the rug holding a toy car while his dad watches gently from nearby

      Guide

      When the Game Goes Wrong: Little Conversations That Build Connection

      Everyday moments that help kids name feelings and try again.

      Read the article
    • A girl with a backpack smiling up at her dad as they walk to the school door

      Comparison

      Nookly vs Sesame Workshop vs Big Life Journal: Finding the Right Conversation Starter

      Free family resources, a journal and personalized stories, compared by fit.

      Read the article

    Start the conversation your way

    Tell Nookly what’s happening, in your words.

    Create a story together

    Questions? We love those!